Latest Divorce Statistics South Africa

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The 2015 divorce data reported were based on 25 260 completed divorce forms that Stats SA received and processed by the end of December 2016.

In 2015, 25 260 completed divorce forms were processed indicating an increase of 2,3% processed in 2014. There were more female than male plaintiffs. The median ages at divorce in 2015 were 44 years for men and 40 years for women. About 45,4% of the 2015 divorces came from marriages that lasted less than 10 years. In 2015, there were 14 045 (55,6%) divorces with children aged less than 18 years affected. Couples from the white population group dominated the number of divorces from 2003 to 2007; thereafter, black African couples had the highest number of divorces up until 2015. In 2003, 40,0% of the divorcees were from the white population group whereas 24,3% came from the black African population group. By 2015, 42,9% of the divorcees were from the black African population group and 26,1% from the white population group. The proportions of the divorcees from the coloured and the Indian/Asian population groups were quite invariable during the thirteen-year period.

Characteristics of plaintiffs

The 2015 data presented show that more wives than husbands, 13 038 (51,6%) women compared to 8 538 (33,8%) initiated divorce and 2 171 (8,6%) divorces were initiated by both husband and wife.

Except for women from the black African population who had a lower proportion of plaintiffs (45,3%), the proportion of women plaintiffs from the other population groups was above 50,0%. The proportion of women plaintiffs for the white population group, Indian/Asian population group and coloured population group were 58,8%, 55,7% and 54,1% respectively.

The provincial distribution indicates that more people from Gauteng divorced followed by the Western Cape and KwaZulu-Natal. In total, 61,5% of divorces granted in 2015 were from these three provinces.

Number of times married

The 2015 divorce cases for both men and women were mainly from individuals who had married once. More than 80,0% of divorces for men and women were from first-time marriages compared to 12,0% of men and 10,2% of women from second-time marriages. Almost 2,0% of men and women were getting divorced for at least the third time.

Age at the time of divorce

The median ages at the time of divorce in 2015 were 44 years for males and 40 years for females, indicating that generally, divorced males were older than divorced females, with a difference of about four years. The pattern of median ages in 2015 by population group shows that the highest median age of 44 years occurred among black African and white males, while the lowest median ages occurred among females from the Indian/Asian and ‘other’ population groups, at 39 and 36 years respectively. The difference in the median ages at the time of divorce between males and females was greater in the ‘other’ population group (six years) compared to the black African, coloured, Indian/Asian and white population groups. Although there were differences in the ages at which most men and women from the various population groups divorced, the age patterns were quite similar. The data reveal that there were fewer divorces among the younger (less than 25 years old) and the older (65 years and older) divorcees. For males, the peak age group at divorce was 40 to 44 for all population groups, except for the coloured population group where the highest peak was from the age group 45 to 49 years. In the case of females, the peak age group for coloured and white population groups was 40 to 44 years and the peak for black African and Indian/Asian population groups was 35 to 39 years.

Duration of marriage of divorcing couples

27,6% of divorces among males were for marriages that lasted between five and nine years. This group is followed by marriages that lasted between ten and fourteen years 18,8% and marriages that lasted for less than five years 17,8%. Thus 45,4% of the divorces in 2015 were marriages that lasted for less than 10 years. According to the results, irrespective of the population group, the highest proportion of divorces occurred to couples who had been married for five to nine years. Thus 32,3% of divorces from the black African; 26,1% from white; 24,9% from coloured and 23,7% from Indian/Asian population groups were marriages that lasted between five and nine years. The white population had the highest proportion 23,6% of divorces that occurred in the first five years. The proportion of divorces in all population groups declined as the duration of marriage increased, with a significant decline being observed after nine years of marriage.

Divorces involving couples with minor children

In 2015, 55,6% of the divorces had children younger than 18 years. The coloured and the white population groups had the highest and lowest proportion of divorces involving couples with children with 63,1% and the 47,2% respectively. 45,6% of children affected by divorce were from the black African population group; 21,6% from the white population group; 20,1% from the coloured population group and 5,9% from the Indian/Asian population group.

Compiled by: Bertus Preller – Family Law Attorney
Bertus Preller & Associates Inc.
Ground Level, The Chambers, 50 Keerom Street, Cape Town, 8000
Telephone: +27 21 422-2461
E-mail: info(@)preller.co.za
Twitter: @bertuspreller

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Cape Town divorce lawyer Bertus Preller writes South Africa’s first Book on Divorce and Separation for the general public, published by Random House Struik

CAPE TOWN, WC, SOUTH AFRICA, August 7, 2013 /EINPresswire.com/ —

Everyone’s Guide to Divorce and Separation by Bertus Preller will help with the following crucial aspects: your rights when you get divorced in South Africa, and the monetary aspects relating to divorce (including the consequences relating to assets and the divisions thereof, spousal maintenance and support, parental rights and responsibilities of children, how to implement a parenting plan, how much child maintenance will likely be required, and how to file for maintenance and child support, the procedures to obtain a protection order when there is domestic violence or abuse, an unmarried father’s rights and how to acquire parental rights and the law on cohabitation, same-sex marriages, and how to draft a proper cohabitation agreement.
In the Foreword of the book, Judge Denis Davis says the following:

“Bertus Preller has filled a very significant gap with this timely book, in that in plain language, he provides a comprehensive guide to the broader community through the thicket of law that now characterises this legal landscape. Having said that, many lawyers, particularly those who do not specialise in the field, will also find great assistance in this work. Early on in the text, Mr Preller makes a vital point – litigation is truly the option of last resort in the event of a matrimonial dispute. The adversarial process which is the manner in which law operates is not at all conducive to a settlement of issues, particularly custody of minor children, which have a long-lasting and vital impact on the lives, not only of the antagonists but also the children who have not, in any way, caused the problem giving rise to the forensic battle. Often in my experience on the Bench, I have wondered how such vicious and counter productive litigation can be allowed to continue. Lawyers will point to clients, whose disappointment in the breakdown of the marriage now powers such adverse feelings to their erstwhile partner, as the core reason for the ‘legal fight to the finish’. Whatever the context, however, it is important that arcane and often incomprehensible legal jargon be made accessible to those affected by the law. In this way, ordinary citizens can ensure that their rights work for them and at the same time they are assisted to grasp fully the implications of the obligations that the law imposes upon them. – Judge Dennis Davis”

The book is on the shelves of all major book stores on and also at Amazon.com

About the Author:

Bertus Preller is a Family and Divorce Law Attorney and Mediator at Bertus Preller & Associates Incoss in Cape Town. He acts in divorce matters across South Africa He matriculated at Grey College, studied at the University of the Free State and the University of Johannesburg and was admitted as an attorney in 1989. He has nearly 25 years of experience in law. He was appointed as a part time mediator and arbitrator in 1996 by the CCMA. He has also been quoted on Family Law issues in various newspapers such as the Sunday Times and Business Times and magazines such as Noseweek, Keur, Living and Loving, Longevity, Woman and Home, Women’s Health, You, Huisgenoot and Fairlady and also appeared on the SABC television show, 3 Talk, Morning Live and on the 5FM Breakfast show with Gareth Cliff. His clients include artists, celebrities, sports people and high net worth individuals. His areas of expertise are Divorce Law, Family Law, Divorce Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parental Responsibilities and Rights, Custody (care and contact) of children, same sex marriages, unmarried fathers rights, child abduction and Hague Convention cases and domestic violence matters and international divorce law. He is also the founder of iDivorce an online uncontested divorce service.

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Bertus Preller & Associates Inc.
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When billionaires divorce

When dealing with high net worth and multimillionaires divorce matters a divorce attorney must make sure to employ the best possible experts as part of the legal team, this is especially so if the assets at stake run into millions. I was involved as the divorce attorney of a client in a recent matter where two British citizens divorced in South Africa with assets across the globe that ran into millions of rands. In matters such as these various expert witnesses may be employed to lead evidence on behalf of a party to the divorce proceedings, consisting of forensic auditors, valuers, art experts, industrial psychologists, child psychologists, immigration experts etc.

In this matter I was fortunate to work with one of Britton’s top leading Family Law Barristers Richard Todd QC who rendered an opinion on the division of the matrimonial assets in this divorce case as far as it relates to UK law. Richard is an Oxford scholar who won the Hugh Bellott Prize (Highest Placed in the Oxford University Public International Law Finals) and who obtained the highest awards available to a practising Silk: The Chambers & Partners “Family Law Silk of the Year “ and The Lawyer’s “Hottest Family Law QC”. Richard have given expert evidence of English law to the courts of Australia, Belgium, the Cayman Islands, the Channel Islands, Cyprus, France, Germany, Gibraltar, Hong Kong, India, Italy, New Zealand, South Africa, Spain and the USA and appeared in over 4000 matrimonial cases with a long list of report cases, needless to say the identity of former clients is confidential. However former clients include twelve Billionaires (Sterling) and two Oscar winning actors (plus another three who have been nominated).

In this matter the parties were married in England and subsequently immigrated to South Africa. In such a case the matrimonial property regime of England would apply to their marriage and English law would always apply to their marriage. In a case such as this and where the divorce is contested a South African court could divorce them but, the court would have to apply English Law. It is interesting to note that if a South African couple is on holiday in England and decides to get married, they would automatically marry in community of property and not according to English law.

The test is the husband’s domicile as at the date of the marriage, i.e. what country the husband considered to be his permanent home plus his mental intention to remain there indefinitely. Domicile is defined as the principal place of residence of an individual. This is determined primarily by intent.

Thus, if the husband regarded his place of domicile to be Cape Town at the time of the marriage, the parties would be married according to the laws of South Africa and not England and their type of marriage (matrimonial property regime) would be one in community of property. For the marriage to have been out of community of property, the parties would have had to enter into an antenuptial contract in South Africa before leaving for holiday. If they failed to do so, they would have to apply to court to register an antenuptial contract, postnuptially.

About the author:

Bertus Preller is a Divorce Attorney in Cape Town and has more than 20 years experience in most sectors of the law and 13 years as a practicing attorney. He specializes in Family law and Divorce Law at Abrahams and Gross Attorneys Inc. in Cape Town. Bertus is also the Family Law expert on Health24.com and on the expert panel of Law24.com and is frequently quoted on Family Law issues in newspapers such as the Sunday Times and Business Times and magazines such as Noseweek, You and Huisgenoot, and also appeared on SABC television on the 3 Talk TV show. His clients include artists, celebrities, sports people and high networth individuals. His areas of expertise are Divorce Law, Family Law, Divorce Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parental Responsibilities and Rights, Custody (care and contact) of children, same sex marriages, unmarried fathers rights, domestic violence matters, international divorce law, digital rights, media law and criminal law.

Email: bertus(@)divorceattorney.co.za

Bekende Egskeidings Prokureur Gee Raad

Dit is belangrik om die implikasies van die wyse waarop jy getroud is te verstaan, en as jy dit nie verstaan nie, vind dan uit by iemand wat aan jou kan verduidelik sodat jy dit behoorlik kan verstaan. Is jy getroud binne of buite gemeenskap van goedere? As jy is getroud binne gemeenskap van goedere, sal jy geregtig wees op 50% van die gemeenskaplike boedel en as jy is getroud buite gemeenskap van goedere met die aanwasbedeling, is jy geregtig op die helfte van die verskil van jou en jou gade se aanwas. As jy getroud is buite gemeenskap van goedere sonder die aanwasbedeling voor 1 November 1984, sal jy geregtig wees om te vra vir ‘n herverdeling van die bates, wat behels dat jy dalk in staat sal wees om 50% van die gesamentlike bates te eis, maar as jy getroud buite gemeenskap van goedere sonder die aanwasbedeling na 1 November 1984 sal jy net ‘n eis vir onderhoud kan instel onder sekere omstandighede.

  • Jy kan onder sekere omstandighede eis vir rehabiliterende onderhoud. Rehabiliterende onderhoud is waar een gade die ander vir ‘n vasgestelde tydperk maandeliks betaal, bv vir twee jaar of langer.
  • Onthou dat jy kan ‘n aansoek loods hangende die egskeiding om onderhoud, terwyl die egskeiding nog nie afgehandel is nie, in so ‘n aansoek kan jy ook eis dat jou gade ‘n bydrae maak tot jou regskoste.
  • Kry soveel finansiële inligting oor jou eggenoot moontlik, maak afskrifte van alle bankstate, kredietkaart state en maak ‘n lys van al die bates en laste, bronne van inkomste, ens.
  • Stel ‘n volledige begroting op van jou huidige maandelikse uitgawes en inkomste van jou en jou kinders. Dit kan die moeite werd wees om voorsiening te maak vir toekomstige uitgawes.
  • Jy kan ook aandring op die sessie van ‘n lewenspolis van jou gade om die betaling van maandelikse onderhoud te verseker.
  • Probeer om aan te bly in die gesamentlike woning vir solank as jy kan huis (as dit naby aan jou kinders se skool of werk is). Daar is ‘n gesegde in ons reg, dat besit 9 / 10 van die reg is. Om in die gesamentlike woning aan te bly, sal ook die situasie van die kinders stabiliseer, aangesien ‘n trek na ‘n nuwe bestemming ‘n baie traumatiese ervaring vir die kinders kan wees.
  • Onthou dat jy nie noodwendig die oordragkoste hoef te betaal vir ‘n eiendom wat aan jou oorgedra word in jou egskeiding nie. Daar is verskeie opsies met betrekking tot eiendom wat aan beide van julle behoort, byvoorbeeld deur dit te behou of te verkoop of die netto wins verdeel.
  • Sien toe dat die Skikkingsooreenkoms so opgestel word dat jy kan aandring op ‘n aftrekking van jou gade se salaris indien hy nie betaal nie.
  • Sorg dat jou egskeiding Skikkingsooreenkoms sou opgestel word om ‘n deel van enige bates wat jou eggenoot wegsteek en waarvan jy nie bewus is op datum van die egskeiding nie te bekom wanneer jy later daarvan uitvind.
  • Moet nie minder tevrede wees nie, baie vroue loop eenvoudig as gevolg van die emosionele druk met minder as waarop hulle geregtig is. Onthou dat egskeiding altyd ‘n sake-besluit is en die besluite wat jy maak nou ‘n definitiewe impak sal hê later in jou lewe.
  • Egskeiding kan ‘n langdurige proses wees en dit kan baie frustrerend en emosioneel dreinerend wees, dit neem tyd en strategiese beplanning.
  • Moenie verander prokureurs in die proses bloot as gevolg van jou eie frustrasie nie, soos hulle sê, die spel van ‘n egskeiding is soos’ n skaakspel.
  • Onthou dat jou eggenoot se bates sluit ook in aandeelhoudings in maatskappye, aftreefondse, pensioenfondse en selfs belasting terugbetalings.
  • Dink met jou kop en nie met jou hart.
  • Onthou om jou testament te verander.

Going through a Divorce? The 10 Things A Woman Should Do

Going through a Divorce? The 10 Things A Woman Should Do

Divorce shakes life’s foundations. Suddenly, high stakes issues exist in almost every arena: financial, legal and emotional. This creates the “perfect storm” that causes the couple’s conflict to rage completely out of control. During divorce it becomes difficult to make the rational decisions that are the heart of a carefully crafted settlement. Women who are understandably uncomfortable with the stress and tension of divorce may sometimes rush into a settlement only to reduce the conflict. Eventually, however, in future, they may live to regret their hastily made decisions.

If you are like many women facing divorce, you hope to reach an amicable settlement and avoid bitter and costly legal battles. Your divorce settlement, however, will impact your financial well-being and that of your children for many years to come. Therefore, you must achieve not just any settlement but one that truly meets your needs and that of your children.

If you are the wife in a marriage where your husband is the breadwinner and/or controls the family finances, the situation could get especially difficult.

Ten important things that you should do:

  1. Gather as much financial information as possible.
  2. Change your email passwords.
  3. Start putting money away for legal fees. If you don’t have access to your own funds your attorney can claim a contribution from your spouse to pay your legal fees.
  4. Make a list of your monthly income and expenses as well as the expenses of your children.
  5.  Open a new checking and savings account.
  6. Open new credit cards in your name only.
  7. Change your Will, if you are married out of community of property, get a copy of your antenuptial contract.
  8. Change beneficiaries on life insurance policies.
  9. Take an inventory of all personal (non-marital) property, take an inventory of all marital property.
  10. Decide who will be the primary caregiver of the minor children and where they shall live.

Antenuptial Contracts – The most important contract in your lifetime

The Antenuptial or Prenuptial Contract is certainly one of the most important documents that any person will sign in his/her lifetime, well that is if you decide to tie the knot and get married.  Antenuptial agreements are often seen as a cold, harsh and unromantic sign that one’s partner is planning on the relationship ending in doom. Some people have no issues with them and see them as valuable protection for both parties while others might go as far as to call of their wedding if the idea surfaces.

A major problem however is that people somehow disregard the importance of the Antenuptial Contract and many embark on a marriage without due cognisance of the repercussions that might follow at a later stage, especially when the marriage end in the big D – divorce. Somehow many people merely see the Antenuptial Contract as a formality, something that needs to be signed prior to the wedding day, without realising the consequences of such an important legal instrument. The problem is that the Bride and Groom, concentrates more on the wedding ceremony, the dress, the honeymoon etc. and leaves the Antenuptial contract for that late minute meeting with an attorney just before the wedding day.

No one goes into a marriage contemplating a divorce but when you consider that the Antenuptial Contract governs what will happen to your assets and liabilities on divorce or death, it makes lots of sense that considerable thought should be given to concluding it and that its contents should be fully understood by all parties concerned. Unfortunately many people are more drawn into the eyes of their spouse prior to the marriage than to the importance of the wording of a proper Antenuptial Contract.

Marriage in Community of Property

Where you did not conclude an Ante nuptial Contract prior to your wedding day, you will automatically marry in community of property. ‘In community of property’ means that everything the couple own, and their debts, from before their marriage are put together in a joint estate. And everything they earn or buy after their marriage is also part of this joint estate. Any money or possessions belonging to either of the spouses at the time of the marriage, or acquired by them at any time thereafter, cease to be the private property of the one person and become part of a joint estate in which each of the partners has an equal, undivided share.

On termination of the marriage, the husband and wife are each entitled to a half-share of the joint estate and they are jointly liable for any liabilities. A major disadvantage is that if one partner becomes insolvent, the other is protected only if he or she owns property that does not form part of the joint estate. Everything in the joint estate will be attached and sold off to pay any creditors.

Marriage out of Community of Property

Each spouse retains his or her own assets and liabilities whether acquired before or during marriage. There is no sharing of profits and losses. Both spouses have full and independent contractual capacity. Upon death or divorce, each spouse keeps control over their own assets.

This clearly gives parties absolute independence of contractual capacity and protects the estates of each party against claims by the other party’s creditors. There is no provision for any sharing whatsoever.  A party who contributed to the other party’s estate whether in cash or otherwise would have a heavy onus to prove that he or she was entitled to anything from that party’s estate on dissolution of the marriage.

Where one party stays at home to raise children and does not contribute financially towards the marriage and the other spouse works and accumulates assets, the former may find herself with nothing and no claim to the assets of the latter.

The marriage is governed by a contract known as an ante nuptial contract which is concluded by the parties before the marriage. If the marriage occurred after 1 November 1984, the contract had to specifically exclude the system of accrual. In the absence of this exclusion the rules of accrual will automatically apply.

Marriage out of Community of Property with Inclusion of the Accrual System

In most cases the accrual system is, perhaps, the fairest marriage system for the majority of couples. Before the introduction of the accrual system in 1984, if prospective spouses chose to be married out of community of property, there was no form of sharing between them of what was built up during the marriage. The accrual system was introduced to remedy this.

The Matrimonial Property Act 88 of 1984 brought with it the “accrual” system which permits a form of sharing, consistent with a primary objective of marriage, but permitting retention of each party’s independence of contract and ability to retain their own unique separate estates.

“Accrual” means increase. The accrual system is a form of sharing of the assets that are built up during the marriage. The underlying philosophy in respect of the accrual system is that each party is entitled to take out the asset value that he or she brought into the marriage, and then they share what they have built up together. One spouse’s property cannot be sold to pay the other’s creditors if the other becomes insolvent – in contrast to the case where the parties are married in community of property.

It is of utmost importance that a party wishing to enter into an Ante Nuptial Contract must fully understand what it is they are signing. It is for this reason that a standard form contract cannot be used, that consultations cannot be held over the phone or by means of email and that, unfortunately.

The important features of an accrual marriage are in essence the following:

  • Each party retains his or her own estate. Each party may accumulate assets and incur liabilities without interference from or assistance of the other spouse.  The estate of each party is determinable separately.
  • The monetary value of the smaller estate is subtracted from the monetary value of the larger estate, the difference is split, and the party having the larger estate pays half of the difference between the two estates to the party with the smaller estate.
  • At dissolution of the marriage, the estate of each party is calculated by listing all assets, listing all liabilities, subtracting liabilities from assets and arriving at a net asset value.
  • In practical terms this amounts to a similar division to a marriage in community of property.  However there are certain crucial factors of an accrual marriage which add complexity and much more freedom of choice. When drafting the Ante Nuptial Contract, the parties can each decide to exclude certain assets.  The effect of excluding an asset will be that it does not feature on the asset statement at dissolution of the marriage and is completely excluded from the calculation. Assets which are not properly described can cause huge problems when the executor or the divorce attorney tries to decide what to do with it in calculating the net accrual value.
  • To exclude either a specific asset, or a commencement value, or both (which must be separate and not derived from the same asset), can effectively ensure that couples share only what they choose to share and keep separate any item or items, or values, which they do not believe it fair to share (for example something acquired before the relationship commenced).Parties not wishing to exclude specific assets may exclude a certain sum of money which is the agreed equivalent of assets which they do not wish to share, and which is termed a “commencement value”.

Excluded from the Accrual

Certain property belonging to either the husband or the wife may not be taken into account when the accruals are worked out:

  • Any damages awarded to either spouse for defamation or for pain and suffering;Any inheritances, legacies or gifts that either spouse has received during the marriage, unless the parties have agreed in their antenuptial contract to include these or the donor has stipulated their inclusion;
  • A donation made by one spouse to the other. This is not taken into account as part of either the giver’s or the receiver’s estate, with the result that the giver cannot recover part of what he or she gave and the receiver need not return any of it.

Calculating the Accrual

The accrual is calculated by subtracting the net asset value of his/her estate at the commencement of marriage from the net asset value of his/her estate at dissolution of the marriage.

Example:

If spouse C had a net asset value of R10 000.00 at the commencement of the marriage (his/her “initial value”) and a net asset value of R100 000.00 at dissolution of marriage (his/her “end value”) then the accrual to his/her estate is R90 000.00. If the initial value of the other spouse B was R20 000.00 and hi/her end value R200 000.00, it follows that the accrual to his/her estate is R180 000.00.

Net accrual is calculated by subtracting the “smaller” accrual from the “larger” accrual. In the above example: R180 000-00 – R90 000-00 = R90 000-00. In accordance with the Act, C (the spouse with the smaller accrual) acquires a claim against B (the spouse with the larger accrual) for one half of the net accrual, namely – R45 000.00.

If you do intend to get married, it is well worth your while to consult a reputable attorney, to discuss your particular requirements and ensure that you fully understand the application of the accrual system to your particular situation.

Conclusion

An Ante Nuptial Contract must be signed before the marriage and must be signed in the presence of a notary and two competent witnesses. The notary will then register the contract in the local registry of deeds.  If parties wish to conclude an Ante Nuptial Contract after their marriage it is necessary to launch an application to the High Court.

About the Author

Bertus Preller is a Divorce Attorney in Cape Town and has more than 20 years experience in most sectors of the law and 13 years as a practicing attorney. He specializes in Family law and Divorce Law at Abrahams and Gross Attorneys Inc. in Cape Town. Bertus is also the Family Law expert on Health24.com and on the expert panel of Law24.com and is frequently quoted on Family Law issues in newspapers such as the Sunday Times and Business Times and magazines such as Noseweek, You and Huisgenoot. His clients include artists, celebrities, sports people and high networth individuals. His areas of expertise are Divorce Law, Family Law, Divorce Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parental Responsibilities and Rights, Custody (care and contact) of children, same sex marriages, unmarried fathers rights, domestic violence matters, international divorce law, digital rights, media law and criminal law.

Egskeidings Prokureur gee raad oor egskeidings

Egskeiding Prokureur Kaapstad – Abrahams en Gross Inc.

Bertus Preller is in beheer van die Egskeiding en Familiereg Afdelings by  Abrahams en Gross ‘ n regsfirma in Kaapstad. Die firma is reeds in 1935 gestig. Hy word beskou as een van die top egskeiding prokureurs in Kaapstad en hanteer egskeidings en familie reg sake regoor Suid Afrika.

Wat is belangrik in ‘n egskeiding saak?

Wat belangrik is in enige egskeiding saak is strategie. My benadering tot enige egskeiding of familiereg dispuut is om dit so gou as moontlik te skik, in my klient se guns natuurlik of tot voordeel van beide partye waar ek namens beide van hulle optree. Die voordeel is dat dit dan koste-effektief is en minder emosionele letsels laat. Egskeiding, ongeag hoe vriendskaplik dit is, is altyd vol emosie en nooit maklik nie. Waar daar wel ‘n geleentheid is om te rekonsilieer moet beide partye dit ten alle koste probeer. ‘n Gesonde samelewing is die gevolg van ‘n stabiele gesinslewe en daarom is egskeiding nie altyd die uitweg nie. Ek glo dat baie egskeidings in die eerste plek nooit moes plaasvind nie.

Wat is die koste verbonde aan ‘n egskeiding?

Dit is belangrik om te onderskei tussen “vriendskaplike of onbestrede egskeidings” en “vyandige of bestrede egskeidings”. Waar die partye wel kan ooreenkom oor die verdeling van die bates, onderhoud en by wie die kinders gaan woon na egskeiding en watter vorm van toegang die ander ouer gaan kry is dit soms beter om gebruik te maak van ‘n selfdoen of DIY egskeidingsdiens soos eDivorce. In ‘n Onbestrede egskeiding kan die koste tot so min as R 950 wees indien beide partye gebruik maak van’ n aanlyn-doen-dit-self, of DIY egskeidingsdiens soos eDivorce, http://www.edivorce.co.za.  Wanneer partye gebruik maak van ‘n prokureur kan dit enigiets van R4500 af kos. Regskoste kan wissel na gelang van die kompleksiteit van ‘n egskeiding saak.

Hoe lank neem ‘n onbestrede egskeiding?

‘n Onbestrede egskeiding kan gefinaliseer word binne ‘n paar weke. Afhangende van jou prokureur kan dit enigiets neem van 3 tot 6 weke. In die hantering van egskeidingsaangeleenthede, doen ons gewoonlik ons bes om dit te probeer afhandel sou gou moontlik en benader ons elke saak om die bes moontlike resultaat tot verkry. Groot omstrede egskeiding aangeleenthede, waar meer bates op die spel is, kos ongetwyfeld meer en kan baie tydrowend wees.

Hoe lank neem ‘n bestrede egskeiding?

‘n Bestrede egskeiding kan tot 3 jaar of selfs langer neem om af te handel en die koste daaraan verbonde kan honderde duisende rande beloop.

Waarop is jy geregtig as jy binne gemeenskap of buite gemeenskap van goedere getroud is?

Indien jy getroud is binne gemeenskap van goedere, is jy geregtig op 50% van die gemeenskaplike boedel en as jy getroud is buite gemeenskap van goedere met die aanwasbedeling, is jy geregtig op die helfte van die verskil van jou en jou gade se aanwas, indien sy aanwas groter was as joune. As jy getroud is buite gemeenskap van goedere sonder die aanwasbedeling voor 1 November 1984, sal jy geregtig wees om te vra vir ‘n herverdeling van bates, wat behels dat jy in staat kan wees om 50% van die gesamentlike bates op te eis, maar indien jy getroud is buite gemeenskap van goedere sonder die aanwasbedeling na 1 November 1984 sal jy slegs kan eis vir onderhoud.

Wanneer is jy geregtig op onderhoud?

Daar is verskeie faktore wat in aanmerking geneem moet word om te bepaal of jy geregtig sal wees op lewenslange onderhoud. Jy kan onder sekere omstandighede ook rehabiliterende onderhoud eis. Rehabiliterende onderhoud is waar een gade die ander vir ‘n tydperk betaal, bv. vir drie jaar of meer.

Ek het nie geld om te skei nie, wat nou?

Jy kan ‘n hof aansoek bring hangende die finalisering van die egskeiding om tussentydse onderhoud te verkry, terwyl die egskeiding in die proses is, jy kan jy ook in so’ n aansoek eis dat jou gade ‘n bydrae maak aan jou regskoste.

Watter raad kan jy vir vrouens gee wat wil skei?

  • Kry soveel finansiële inligting oor jou eggenoot moontlik, maak afskrifte van al die bankstate, kredietkaart state, sowel as ‘n skedule van al die bates en laste, bronne van inkomste, ens.
  • Stel ‘n gedetailleerde begroting van jou huidige maandelikse uitgawes en inkomste op. Vir jou en jou kinders maak voorsiening vir toekomstige uitgawes.
  • Jy kan selfs aandring op die sessie van’ n versekeringspolis op jou gade se lewe in die geval dat hy/sy gestremd raak of sterf om jou onderhoud te verseker.
  • Poog te alle tye om aan te bly in die gesamentlike woning (as dit naby aan die kinders se skool of jou werk is). Die feit dat die kinders bly in die omgewing waaraan hulle gewoont is sal meer stabiliteit teweeg bring.
  • Onthou dat jy nie noodwendig altyd die oordragkoste hoef te betaal vir ‘n eiendom wat aan jou oorgedra word tydens jou egskeiding nie. Jy kan verskeie opsies met betrekking tot die eiendom uit oefen, byvoorbeeld deur dit te behou en jou gade se gedeelte oor te dra op jou naam of dit te verkoop en die netto wins te verdeel ens.
  • Maak seker dat jou egskeiding Skikkingsooreenkoms ‘n bepaling het wat tot gevolg het dat jy beslag kan le op jou eggenote se salaris in geval hy nie onderhoud betaal nie.
  • Sorg dat jou egskeiding Skikkingsooreenkoms so opgestel word om ‘n deel van enige bates te bekom in die toekoms wat jou eggenoot dalk weggesteek het, en waarvan jy nie bewus is op datum van egskeiding nie.
  • Moenie skik vir minder as waarop jy geregtig is nie, baie vroue neem eenvoudig die pad uit as gevolg van emosionele druk. Onthou dat egskeiding altyd ‘n sake-besluit is en die besluite wat jy nou maak sal ‘n impak jare later in jou lewe he.
  • Egskeiding kan baie frustrerend en emosioneel wees en dit neem tyd en strategiese beplanning. Moenie van prokureurs verander in die proses bloot as gevolg van jou eie frustrasie nie.
  • Onthou dat jou ex se bates ook insluit aandeelhoudings in maatskappye, aftree-fondse, pensioenfondse en selfs belasting terugbetalings.
  • Dink met jou kop en nie met jou hart nie.
  • Onthou om jou testament te verander binnekort na die egskeiding.

Bertus Preller is ‘n egskeidings prokureur in Kaapstad. Hy spesialiseer in egskeidings en familiereg sake by Abrahams en Gross Ing en is ook die Familiereg kenner by die Health24.com forum, Co-Parenting forum en op die deskundiges paneel van Law24.com. Hy word dikwels aangehaal in koerante soos die Sunday Times, Sunday Tribune, Business Times, asook tydskrifte soos Noseweek, Huisgenoot en You aangehaal oor familiereg en egskeidings. Hy spesialiseer in egskeiding, familiereg, mediasie, ouerskap planne, ouerlike verantwoordelikhede, bewaring sorg en kontak van kinders, ongetroude vader regte, huishoudelike geweld sake, interdikte en internasionale egskeidings.

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